To start off I am NOT gay in any way, shape, or form. I was just wondering about why nobody has really spoken about this topic. But man are a lot of guys slacking with girls these days. I mean I see some old school movies from time to time, and it's like damn you don't see that type of shit no more these days. I'm not saying that I'm the perfect gentleman, & I'm damn sure that there are plenty of women who would more than happily point that out to me. But I'm just saying where have the gentleman gone?
Remember when dudes use to call a chick to go out on a date, instead now it's in text and goes something along the lines of "yo girl we gotta chill & ride out to the club this weekend!" Like damn I know I don't wanna become that. Like yeah sure I'll invite girls to clubs, but I like to think if I'm truly "feeling" you or want to get to know you that, that is not the way I come off. I'm just saying it seems guys have lost a lot of there manners. Like guys don't open doors for girls that often, or buy them flowers, I don't know maybe it's just me. I'm a romantic guy (no homo) LOL damn the more I write the gayer I sound. I'm confident about my sexuality though so I got no problem writing this and being judged or whatever. But anyways back to the topic at hand. Fellas please take my advice when I tell you, that a girl would much rather get a phone call, then a text message if your asking her out. They would much rather you take them out to do something they like to do, then to chill with your boys and post with some brews. Treat your lady right or another man will. It sounds cliche but it's the truth. I feel like I'm giving a lesson or something, hope it doesn't come off as cocky or anything, I'm not saying I understand women, cause shit women don't even understand themselves. But I do think I do okay in that subject, so I think these are some valid suggestions. Also guys be gentlemen like, handle things cool. Not all girls want a bad ass who is going to throw a punch, or bitch at someone for hollering at your girl. Now don't get me wrong don't just brush it off either and holler at some chick cause a girl likes to feel wanted. But I'm just saying be a gentleman handle things smoothly. Why'd you think every girl loves James Bond? The nigga is smooth! Haha okay seriously it's getting late and now I just feel like I'm giving advice on women or something.
POINT IS ..... Be a gentleman don't become this new age era guy who is cool cause he act like he doesn't care. I'm off to say a prayer and catch some zzzzzs. Night everyone! No proofreading so sorry in advance for the grammar mistakes!!
God Bless!!
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